Communication for Closure
As discussed in a previous
blog, the dying process is often filled with challenging, ethically complex
decisions. Because dying is a highly personal event, it is frequently dominated
by confusion regarding preferences and choices that must be made in relation to
the physical, psychological, social, and existential aspects of the dying
experience. In making these decisions, terminally ill patients need options that
balance the ethical obligation of respecting each patients long held beliefs, values,
cultural mores, practices, and patterns of living; while ensuring that ill
informed choices do not jeopardize their welfare (Fisher, 2013, p.132). The
safest way to achieve Standard 3.04 Avoiding Harm, and uphold dignity, autonomy, and the aspirational principles of Beneficence; Nonmaleficence; and Justice, lies
in open dialogue and communication with patients, their families, and with
colleagues from various health care and other professions (Latimer, 1991). Using
Standards on Human Relations; Assessment;
Therapy; and Competence, as guidelines for exchanges of information, as
well as for participating in a “caring conversation”, care givers can gauge the
moral acceptability of various practices with patients at the end-of-life.
When initiating and
sustaining discussion about end-of-life care, caregivers must be prepared to
shepherd the patient through many of the clinical and ethical challenges that
characterize this last phase of life (Quill, 2000). They have a responsibility
to deal with human beings as they are. People only die once and they have no
experience to draw upon (Gawande, 2010). Patients need a care team who is
willing to have the hard discussions, say what they have seen, and whom will
help them with what is to come (2.01 Boundaries of Competence). Fundamental to
the success and integrity of both parties in the patient-professional
relationship is “gentle truth-telling” - to the extent that patients require
and indicate that they can tolerate (Latimer, 1991). Patients need to know about
their condition and prognosis, their choices in courses of action, and the
likely outcomes of these choices (Quill, 2000). Additionally, not only do they need to know the
reality of their situation, they need to have it communicated in a kind but
accurate manner. Deceit, no matter how kindly motivated, leads to despair
(Latimer, 1991). (3.04 Avoiding Harm) This accurate information gives patients
not only control over their body and their life, by choosing their form of treatment,
it gives them an opportunity to do and talk about things that are important to
them (complete a will, heal family relationships, get finances in order, say
their goodbyes, and prepare themselves for death). When a patient is unaware
that death is approaching, these issues may be left unattended to. A constant source
of anger and frustration voiced by bereaved relatives is that no one sat down
and discussed the fact that their loved one was dying (Ellershaw & Ward,
2003). Standards of importance in these areas are: 9.01 Bases for Assessment,
9.02 Use of Assessment, 9.03 Informed Consent in Assessments, 9.06 Interpreting
Assessment Results, 10.01a Informed Consent to Therapy, and 10.01b Anticipated
Course of Therapy.Conversations for Information
Although conversations about end-of-life care are difficult to initiate, one would think clinicians would be well equipped to navigate these waters. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. Patients, their families, and clinicians, frequently avoid mentioning death or dying; even when the patient’s suffering is severe (Quill, 2000). One factor undermining successful end-of-life discussions is; because of the availability and reverence for medical technology in health care, one does not always know when dying begins and when death is likely to occur (Gawande, 2010). There is reluctance by doctors to diagnosis dying, even when pressed, as they feel there is always something more that can be done. They have not been trained to care for dying patients and therefore feel helpless (Ellershaw & Ward, 2003). Many times, as they feel ill prepared to have a conversation on the subject of mortality, their solution is to avoid the subject altogether (Gawande, 2010). Instead of conversations consisting of options for palliation of symptoms and end of life closure, discussions revolve around fantasies of inappropriate medical treatment they know are unlikely to work, many with the likelihood of causing debilitating side effects. (Standards: 2.01 Boundaries of Competence and 2.01b, When to Refrain and Refer, 2.04 Bases for Scientific and Professional Judgments)
The “breakpoint discussion" (Gawande, 2010, p.21),
is a systematic series of conversations to sort out when the need arises to
switch from fighting for time to fight for the other things people value: being
with family, travel, whatever is important to the individual. Additionally,
the notion of personal dignity many change across different stages of the
illness. Latter discussions of treatment strategies may be distinctly different
from those originally agreed upon. Effective communication between patients,
families, and health care providers is essential to avoid moral conflicts regarding
changes or termination of therapies when it becomes reasonably clear that the
patient no longer needs the services; they are not likely to benefit; or they
are being harmed by continuing the services (Fisher, 2013, p.317). (3.04 Avoiding Harm, 10.01b
Ongoing Nature of Consent and 10.10 Terminating Therapy)
Conversations for Caring
Fully understanding the depths of a patient’s concerns requires as much listening as talking. Gawande (2010, p.20), states “If you are talking more than half of the time, you are talking too much”. Many times patients themselves are reluctant to express (or are not even aware of), the real issues troubling them. Statements such as “I wish I were dead” are often expressions of anger, depression, or of simply being tired of acute medical treatment (Quill, 1993). In fact, even when operating under the Oregon Death with Dignity Act (ODDA), which permits physicians to prescribe lethal doses of medication to hasten the death of competent, terminally ill patients who voluntarily request it (Gallacher, Hughes, & Kleespies, 2000); it was found that requests of assistance in dying only rarely evolved into fully considered requests for physician assisted suicide when a thorough exploration and understanding of a patient’s experience was undertaken, and other interventions (pain control, symptom relief, hospice referral, prescribing of anti-depressant or anti-anxiety medication, consultation with a chaplain), were offered (Delorit, Ganzini, Kraemer, Lee, Nelson, & Schmidt, 2008).
In these final conversations of uncovering a patient’s last wishes, the words you use matter. You don’t ask, “What do you want when you are dying?” You ask, “If time becomes short, what is most important to you?”(Gawande, 2010, p.20). Questions also need to be clarified with statements such as “How were you hoping I could help”, “What is the worst part”, and “What is your biggest fear” (Quill, 1993, p.870). With this knowledge, care providers can act upon the decisions a patient conveys during these discussions, to ensure the focus is on the best interests and wishes of the patient (Latimer, 1991). Not only does this help to prevent the imposition of others’ values (3.06 Conflict of Interest and 2.06 Personal Problems and Conflicts), it allows information and advice to be provided on the approach that will give each patient the best chance of achieving the death they want. More importantly, the end does not come without having a chance to say “Good-bye”, “It’s OK”, “I’m sorry”, or “I love you”.
Excellent article from The New Yorker on "Letting Go":
http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2010/08/02/100802fa_fact_gawande?currentPage=all
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Great posts stacy - you can tell you are really passionate about your work with Hospice...your blog was very informative!
ReplyDeleteThat article from New Yorker was so hard to read, the story of Sarah who learned of her lung cancer at 8 months pregnant, heartbreaking. I can see the dilemma, setting up "end of life" care seems like "giving up" to someone who is young. These discussions are so hard, and this is such an important job, that only special people can handle. So glad you are in this field.
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